Weddings on Wednesday
"Wednesday the best day of all" in English folklore, the Talmud's day for a first marriage, and a fast day for Orthodox Christians.
Marrying on Wednesday around the world
Wednesday's reputation depends on where you stand. The English rhyme calls it "the best day of all". The Talmud says a virgin bride should marry on the fourth day, Wednesday, so that if the husband has a complaint he can go to the court that sits on Thursday, a rule that shaped Jewish wedding days for centuries, and many Orthodox Jews still prefer midweek. In Hindu practice Wednesday, Budhvar, belongs to Mercury, a favourable planet for new beginnings. Orthodox Christians do not marry on Wednesday because it is a fast day, and the Catholic and Anglican churches have no rule. In Thailand some families avoid Wednesday on a monk's advice, a point which varies from village to village.
Wedding customs of Wednesday
- Ketubah ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐บ๐ธ: The Jewish marriage contract; the Talmud ties a first marriage to Wednesday.
- Jewish wedding ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐บ๐ธ๐ฌ๐ง: Midweek weddings still suit observant couples, as weekday evenings avoid the Sabbath altogether.
- Budha ๐ฎ๐ณ: Mercury rules Wednesday and is thought gentle and good for new starts.
- Great Lent ๐ฌ๐ท๐ท๐บ๐ท๐ด: Wednesday and Friday are fast days in the Orthodox church, so weddings are not held.
- Wednesday ๐ฌ๐ง๐บ๐ธ: The English rhyme says Wednesday is the best day of all to marry.
- Mass wedding ๐ฎ๐ณ: Where a muhurat falls on a Wednesday, community weddings are held then.
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Written by the EveryShaadi desk with AI assistance. Customs differ from place to place and family to family. If this is your tradition and we have it wrong, tell us.
Photo credits on this page
The small pictures above come from Wikimedia Commons under free licences. Some are cropped to fit.
- Ketubah: Unknown author, Public domain, source
- Jewish wedding: Jozef Israรซls, Public domain, source
- Wedding superstitions: Anonymous Unknown author, Public domain, source
