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La víbora de la mar
A wedding game where the couple stands on chairs while guests form a snake to test their unity.
This singing game from Mexico turns into a wedding ritual. The bride and groom stand on chairs as an arch. Guests run through in a line, trying to knock them down to symbolize life's obstacles.
When is La víbora de la mar kept?
La víbora de la mar is kept during the wedding reception.
La víbora de la mar is a traditional Mexican children's game that has evolved into a lively wedding custom. It represents community support for the new couple. The bride and groom stand on chairs while guests form a moving snake. They try to knock the couple down to show how the world may challenge them. The family works together to keep the couple standing.
The original game
Children play this song game by holding hands in a line. Two players raise their arms to make an arch. The line runs under the arch while singing. The singers can drop the arch at any time to catch someone. The caught child joins one of two groups. These groups then compete in a tug of war match.
Wedding adaptation
At weddings, the couple stands on chairs to form the arch. Single men and women often make up the snake. They run faster and faster through the venue. The goal is to knock the couple off their seats. This action represents the difficulties that might threaten the marriage. Friends and relatives surround the couple to protect them.
Symbols and gifts
The groom sometimes uses the bride's veil or train to help form the arch. The game ends with the exchange of gifts. The bride throws her bouquet from the chair. The groom throws his garter. Catching these items marks the next person to marry. Some say the catcher will wed the other person.
How La víbora de la mar is kept
The bride and groom stand on chairs at the reception. Guests form a long line holding each other. They run in a circle around the couple. The music speeds up as they go. The snake tries to bump the couple off the chairs. Family members stand nearby to steady the couple. This keeps the pair upright against the force of the runners.
When and where
It happens during the wedding reception after the ceremony.
It is most common in Mexico and also found in Spain.
What La víbora de la mar means
The game shows how outside forces can challenge a union. The couple stands alone on high ground. The running guests represent life's problems. The family protects the couple to show they will stay together through hard times.
Who takes part
- The bride and groom: Stand on chairs to form the arch
- The guests: Form a snake and run through the arch
- Family members: Protect the couple from being knocked down
If you are a guest
Guests join hands to form a long snake. They run in a circle around the seated couple. They try to knock the couple off the chairs while keeping the line intact. The single woman who catches the bouquet is said to be the next to marry.
Then and now
The tradition remains popular in Mexico. It adapts the old children's song into a modern reception activity. The focus stays on community support for the new marriage.
On the wedding table
Questions people ask about La víbora de la mar
When is La víbora de la mar kept?
La víbora de la mar is kept during the wedding reception.
What is La víbora de la mar?
It is a traditional Mexican singing game played at weddings. The couple stands on chairs while guests run through an arch made by their bodies.
Why do guests try to knock the couple down?
The attempt to knock them down represents the obstacles and problems that couples face in life. Keeping them standing shows family support.
What happens at the end of the game?
The bride throws her bouquet and the groom throws his garter. The single people who catch them are believed to be the next to marry.
See also
SevillanasA traditional Andalusian folk dance performed by couples at weddings and local festivals in Spain.
Conga lineA long processing line dance that links dancers in single file to a rhythmic drum beat.
MantillaA lace or silk veil worn over the head and shoulders by women in Spain and Latin America
Las arrasThirteen coins exchanged by the couple to symbolize provision and trust in a Christian marriage.Good reading and sources
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