Wedding traditions of Kinshasa
A rumba capital, where the dowry ceremony, the civil wedding and the church service form three separate days.
Congolese weddings are social events with many guests and a band. The dot, the traditional dowry, is negotiated before the civil marriage. The groom and his friends, the sapeurs, are known for elegant clothing, a theme of the national style.
A wedding here
The families meet to settle the dowry, which can involve cash, cloth, drinks and livestock. The couple then marries before a civil officer and in a church. A rumba band plays at the reception, and the first dance is often done with a fixed sequence.
Law and change
The Family Code was revised in 2016 so that a married woman no longer needs her husband's permission for legal acts; the minimum age is 18. Polygamy is prohibited by law but still occurs in practice.
Wedding customs of Kinshasa
Also part of it, and being written: Sapeurs (The stylish dressers.), Congolese rumba (The music.), Kongo people (The community.).
A wedding trail idea for Kinshasa
- Marche Central de Kinshasa The central market.
- Cathedral Notre-Dame du Congo The cathedral.
- Boulevard du 30 Juin The main avenue.
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Photo credits on this page
The small pictures above come from Wikimedia Commons under free licences. Some are cropped to fit.
- Bride price: Пимоненко Николай Корнилиевич, Public domain, source