Wedding traditions with sweets, sugar and honey
Sweet things are given at weddings because they promise a sweet life.
Sweet things are given at weddings because they promise a sweet life. Sugar, honey, dates, nuts and syrup are handed to the couple, thrown, sent as a box or eaten from a shared dish. Sweets are also the thing most often sent home with guests.
Sugar and honey
In Iran a sugar cone is rubbed over the couple's heads to sweeten the marriage, and the sofreh aghd has honey, sugar and sweets that the bride and groom feed each other. In India a box of mithai is exchanged when the match is agreed. In Greece the bride may put a sugar cube in her glove, and the koufeta, sugared almonds, are given to guests. In Italy the confetti are sugared almonds in odd numbers, usually five, for health, wealth, happiness, long life and fertility.
Sweet gifts
In Morocco and Egypt guests are welcomed with dates and milk and trays of pastries. In Turkey and the Arab world baklava and other sweets are sent to relatives, and in Lebanon a candy table is set. In Chinese weddings, sweet lotus seeds and dates stand for children, and in Korea candy and dates are given.
Written by the EveryShaadi desk with AI assistance. Background on Sweets, sugar and honey (symbol). Customs differ from place to place and family to family. If this is your tradition and we have it wrong, tell us.
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Photo credits on this page
The small pictures above come from Wikimedia Commons under free licences. Some are cropped to fit.
- Chinese wedding door games: elfgoh, CC BY-SA 2.0, source
- Azerbaijani wedding traditions: Azim Azimzadeh, Public domain, source
- Hausa traditional marriage: Bembety, CC0, source
- Iranian wedding: Flickr.com user "avlxyz", CC BY-SA 2.0, source
- Assyrian wedding: Yucalyptus, CC0, source
- Wishing well: Unknown author, Public domain, source
- Marriage coin charm: Scott Semans, CC BY 3.0, source
- Chinese pre-wedding customs: Anonymous ( China ) Unknown author, CC0, source
- Blessing ceremony of the Unification Church: Unknown author, Public domain, source
- Hindu wedding: Dinesh Cyanam, CC BY-SA 2.0, source