Khata

Origins of the scarf

The tradition began when Tibetan people gifted animal skins due to a lack of silk. Historical records from the Bon faith mention that sheep wool was worn around the neck during religious rituals under the ninth king, Degong Jayshi. Over time, this practice evolved into the use of woven scarves. Silk eventually replaced plain wool, becoming the standard material for these respectful gifts.

Meaning and colours

The scarf represents purity, compassion, and a pure heart. White khatas are common in Tibet, while yellow-gold versions also appear. In Mongolia, blue scarves symbolise the sky. Some designs feature the ashtamangala symbols. When given to arriving guests, it signals welcome. A farewell khata wishes a safe journey. The colour and design vary by region and community.

Wedding customs

In Nepal, guests present khata scarves to hosts and couples at wedding receptions. Both Hindus and Buddhists in the region participate in this exchange. The act honours the couple and their families. It is also used at graduations and electoral victories. The scarf is often tied around the neck of the recipient as a sign of high regard and good wishes.

How Khata is kept

Guests and family members prepare white, gold, or blue scarves before the event. During the reception, they approach the couple or hosts. They gently place the scarf around the neck of the recipient. This happens multiple times throughout the gathering. The gesture replaces verbal greetings in many contexts. It signifies a bond of respect and shared joy among the attendees.

When and where

It is presented during wedding receptions and other major life events. The timing varies based on the schedule of the celebration. It is not tied to a specific calendar month but occurs whenever such gatherings take place.

The custom is strongest in Tibet, Nepal, and Bhutan. It is also practiced by Mongolian communities. The scarf appears in monasteries, temples, and private homes during ceremonies.

What Khata means

The khata embodies purity and compassion. It reflects the pure heart of the giver. Offering the scarf shows deep respect for the recipient. It creates a spiritual link between people. The gesture fosters harmony and acknowledges the importance of the relationship being celebrated.

Who takes part

• Guests: Present the scarf to the couple or host
• Couple: Receive the scarf with gratitude
• Host: Accept the gift at the reception

If you are a guest

Guests bring a khata scarf to the wedding. They place it around the neck of the couple or hosts. This action shows respect and offers good wishes. Guests may wear traditional clothing to match the occasion. They participate in the exchange with quiet dignity.

Then and now

Modern materials like cotton and polyester now replace silk. The tradition remains strong in Nepal and Tibet. Younger generations continue to offer scarves at weddings. The practice adapts to contemporary settings while keeping its core meaning of respect.

On the wedding table

Symbols: The colour white Gold and jewellery

Questions people ask about Khata

See also

MangalsutraThe sacred necklace tied around the bride's neck to mark her marriage.AltaA red dye applied to hands and feet as an auspicious adornment in South Asian weddings and festivals.Maithil VivahThe arranged Hindu marriage of Maithils in the Mithila region, guided by Vedic texts and local customs.MandapaThe pillared pavilion that serves as the stage for Hindu wedding rituals and temple gatherings.

Good reading and sources

• Khata on WikipediaEncyclopedia
• More photos on Wikimedia CommonsPhotos and video
• Wikidata recordOpen data

It may contain mistakes. Wedding customs differ from one family, village and community to the next, and the people who keep them know them best. If something is wrong, tell us. Last refreshed 2026-10-05.