Muslim wedding traditions
A Muslim wedding centers on the nikah, a contract between two people with consent, witnesses and a gift to the bride.
A Muslim wedding centers on the nikah, a contract between two people with consent, witnesses and a gift to the bride. The rite itself is short and simple, while the celebrations around it vary enormously by country, language and culture. Much of what is called a Muslim wedding is local custom.
The nikah and the mahr
The nikah requires an offer, an acceptance, two witnesses and the mahr, a gift that belongs to the bride and is stated in the contract. It is conducted by an imam, a qazi or any knowledgeable person, and often includes a short sermon, the khutbah, and a prayer. The couple may add conditions in the nikah nama, such as the right to work, and many do. Schools of law differ on details such as the role of a guardian, and scholars are open about these differences.
Walima and what comes after
The walima is a feast hosted by the groom, based on the example of the Prophet. It may be held a day or more after the nikah. Many families also celebrate a henna night, a procession and a reception, but these are cultural, not required. Some communities keep men and women in separate rooms, others do not.
Cultural diversity
A Moroccan wedding includes the amariya and multiple dresses, an Egyptian one the zaffe, a Pakistani one the mehndi, barat and rukhsati, a Turkish one the kina gecesi, a Malay one the akad nikah and bersanding, and an Indonesian one the siraman, a ritual bath. In Somalia and Sudan other customs hold. In the Gulf a groom's party may cost a great deal, and several governments have capped the amount.
Written by the EveryShaadi desk with AI assistance. Background on Muslim (faith). Customs differ from place to place and family to family. If this is your tradition and we have it wrong, tell us.
🇮🇷 Iran and 1 moreNikahnikāḥ (Arabic: نِكَاح)
The Islamic marriage contract that establishes a binding union between two people.Vow · Engagement and betrothal
🇲🇾 Malaysia and 4 moreBaju Kurungباجو كوروڠ
The traditional blouse and skirt worn by Malay women for weddings and religious ceremoniesAttire · The weeks before
🇮🇩 Indonesia and 2 moreKenduri
A communal feast and prayer gathering held by Javanese and Malay communities to mark life events.Feast custom · The weeks before
🇰🇷 South Korea and 5 moreBlessing ceremony of the Unification ChurchHoly Marriage Blessing Ceremony (축복결혼식)
A large-scale marriage rededication or new union ceremony that engrafts couples into a sinless lineage.Rite · Engagement and betrothal
🇫🇷 France and 5 moreProxy marriage
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🇮🇷 Iran and 5 moreCollective wedding
A single ceremony where many couples exchange vows and become married at once.Modern · The ceremony
🇮🇳 Mumbai, India and 3 moreDowry system in Indiaदहेज (Hindi), ज़ेहर (Urdu)
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🇮🇳 India and 5 moreWedding veil
A cloth covering the head or face worn by brides and grooms to mark marriage.Attire · The ceremony
🇪🇬 Egypt and 2 moreMisyar marriageزواج المسيار (zawāj al-misyār)
A Sunni Islamic contract where the wife waives cohabitation and financial support in exchange for a legal union.Vow · Engagement and betrothal
🇺🇸 United States and 5 moreInterfaith marriage
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🇮🇩 IndonesiaSlametan
A communal Javanese feast that brings neighbors together for peace and social unity.Feast custom · The weeks before
🇺🇿 UzbekistanPolygamy in Uzbekistan
The practice of men taking multiple wives in a country where the law strictly forbids it.Modern · Engagement and betrothal
🇮🇩 IndonesiaPolygamy in Indonesia
The legal and customary practice of men having multiple wives across Indonesian faiths and communities.Family role · Engagement and betrothal
🇦🇫 Kabul, AfghanistanPolygamy in Afghanistan
The practice of Afghan men taking multiple wives under Islamic and civil law.Family role · Engagement and betrothal
🇰🇪 KenyaRecognition of same-sex unions in Kenya
The legal ban on gay marriage alongside traditional female-to-female unions that persist in some communities.Vow · Engagement and betrothal
🇳🇬 Kano, NigeriaPolygamy in Nigeria
A marital practice where men take multiple wives, legally recognized in twelve northern states under Sharia law.Family role · Engagement and betrothal
🇸🇦 Saudi Arabia and 2 morePolygamy in Saudi Arabia
A legal marriage structure allowing a man to have up to four wives under Islamic law.Vow · Engagement and betrothal
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A customary union upheld by community tradition instead of state registration.Modern · The ceremony
Photo credits on this page
The small pictures above come from Wikimedia Commons under free licences. Some are cropped to fit.
- Interfaith marriage in Christianity: Andreas Praefcke, CC BY 3.0, source
- Collective wedding: Tribunal de Justiça do Estado do Pará, Public domain, source
- Nikah: عامر شاہین, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Baju Kurung: Ministry of Information official photographer, Public domain, source
- Wedding veil: David Ring, CC0, source
- Blessing ceremony of the Unification Church: Unknown author, Public domain, source
- Dowry system in India: Unknown author, Public domain, source
- Slametan: Unknown author, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Proxy marriage: Alejandro Cicarelli, Public domain, source
- Kenduri: Andreasprasetya, CC BY-SA 4.0, source