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Posthumous marriage
In its own language: minghun
A union performed when one or both partners have died, kept in parts of Asia and permitted by law in a few nations.
Posthumous marriage joins a living person to a deceased partner, or two dead individuals, to secure lineage, legitimize children, or honor the departed. It appears in China, Korea, South Africa, France, and among some Indian communities, as well as within Mormon theology.
When is Posthumous marriage kept?
Posthumous marriage is kept on after the death of a fiancé or spouse.
This practice unites a living person with a deceased partner, or two individuals who have already passed away. Communities perform these unions to ensure family continuity, legitimize offspring, or provide spiritual comfort. While rare globally, specific traditions in East Asia and Southern Africa maintain the custom alongside legal provisions in certain Western nations.
Global traditions
In China, the minghun rite connects two deceased singles or a living woman to a dead man. Korean customs historically allowed a living fiancée to marry her deceased partner, often requiring lifelong celibacy to raise their child together in spirit. South African families may wed a couple after a tragic death to unite their clans and preserve their memory as a happy pair. In India, groups like the Billava and Todas conduct these rites to maintain ancestral lines.
Legal frameworks
France permits posthumous marriage under Article 171 of its Civil Code, originally for war widows and later updated to protect unborn children. The United States generally rejects such unions, though courts have occasionally recognized them for estate purposes before reversing those decisions. Nazi Germany forced marriages between pregnant women and fallen soldiers to secure welfare benefits. Ireland saw a unique case where a woman married a claimed ghost pirate and later divorced him.
Religious views
The LDS Church performs sealings for eternity, allowing living members to stand as proxies for deceased relatives. These rituals bind couples forever, provided they were married in life. Jewish history records Charlotte Kaletta marrying Fritz Pfeffer posthumously in 1950 to counter Nazi laws that banned their union. Other faiths do not typically recognize these unions, viewing death as the final end of earthly contracts.
How Posthumous marriage is kept
Families arrange the union when a death interrupts an engagement or marriage. In China, parents select a partner for their deceased child, sometimes burying bodies together. In Korea, a pregnant fiancée may hold a ceremony at the funeral. South African relatives gather to solemnize the bond between grieving families. French authorities process legal petitions to grant the status retroactively. Mormon proxies stand in temples to perform eternal sealings for ancestors.
When and where
It occurs after the death of a partner, often during the funeral period or shortly after. Dates are set based on mourning periods or legal requirements for estate settlement.
Strongest in China, South Korea, and among specific Indian communities. Legal versions exist in France and occasionally in US courts.
What Posthumous marriage means
The union secures the deceased's place in the family line and ensures their spirit is not lonely. It legitimizes children born after death and provides closure for surviving partners. In religious contexts, it guarantees eternal companionship beyond the grave.
Who takes part
- Parents: Arrange the match for their deceased child
- Living fiancée: Participates in the ceremony or legal petition
- Mormon proxy: Stands in for the deceased during temple sealing
- Judge: Reviews legal petitions for recognition
Then and now
The practice is declining in many areas due to modern legal standards and changing social norms. Some traditions are viewed as outdated or harmful, particularly when they involve coercion or ignore the wishes of the deceased.
Questions people ask about Posthumous marriage
When is Posthumous marriage kept?
Posthumous marriage is kept on after the death of a fiancé or spouse.
What is posthumous marriage?
It is a union where at least one partner is deceased. It serves to legitimize children, continue family lines, or honor the dead.
Where is it practiced?
Traditions exist in China, South Korea, India, and South Africa. Laws permitting it are found in France and occasionally in the US.
Is it legal?
It is illegal in most places. France allows it by law. The US rarely recognizes it, usually only for estate claims.
Why do people do it?
To ensure the deceased has a spouse in the afterlife, to legitimize offspring, or to unite grieving families.
See also
Maithil VivahThe arranged Hindu marriage of Maithils in the Mithila region, guided by Vedic texts and local customs.
MatchmakingThe practice of pairing two people for marriage through an intermediary or system.
Marriage proposalThe moment one partner asks the other to marry them and marks the start of an engagement.Good reading and sources
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