Wedding traditions of South Asia
Saptapadi and the sacred fire, mehndi and haldi, baraat and nikah: the longest, loudest weddings anywhere. 119 traditions on EveryShaadi so far.
Countries
š¦š« Afghanistan 7š§š© Bangladesh 12š§š¹ Bhutan 4š®š³ India 123š²š» Maldives 1š³šµ Nepal 22šµš° Pakistan 28š±š° Sri Lanka 9
Cities and towns
On the calendar
Dev Uthani EkadashiHindu winter shaadi season (Dev Uthani to Kharmas)Magh and Phalgun wedding windowHindu spring wedding window (April to June)Akshaya TritiyaVasant Panchami as a wedding dateBhadli NavamiShubh Vivah muhuratShawwal, the month after RamadanThe winter wedding season of South AsiaMehr, the Persian autumn of weddingsRamadan
šµš° Pakistan and 4 moreWatta sattaŁŁ¹ŁŲ§ سٹŁŲ§ (Punjabi), Ų“ŲŗŲ§Ų± (Urdu)
A reciprocal marriage arrangement where two families exchange sisters and brothers to bind their households together.Betrothal Ā· Finding a match
š®š³ IndiaBride buying in India
The forced purchase of women from impoverished regions for arranged marriages in Northern India.Gift custom Ā· Engagement and betrothal
š®š³ IndiaArabikalyanam
A temporary marriage arrangement between Arabian men and women in Kerala that has been linked to exploitation.Gift custom Ā· Engagement and betrothal
š®š³ India and 5 moreDowry
A payment of wealth from the bride's family to the groom or his household at marriage.Gift custom Ā· Engagement and betrothal
š®š³ Mumbai, India and 3 moreDowry system in Indiaą¤¦ą¤¹ą„ą¤ (Hindi), ą¤ą¤¼ą„हर (Urdu)
The transfer of cash and goods from the bride's family to the groom that has become a source of financial strain and vioGift custom Ā· Engagement and betrothal
šµš° Pakistan and 1 moreVaniŁŁŁ (Urdu)
A forced child marriage used as compensation to settle tribal disputes in Pakistan.Gift custom Ā· Engagement and betrothal
š±š° Kandy, Sri LankaKandyan marriage
The traditional union rites of Sri Lanka's Buddhist Kandyan community, defined by residence and inheritance.Vow Ā· Engagement and betrothal
š§š© BangladeshPolygamy in Bangladesh
The practice of men taking multiple wives, regulated by different laws for Muslims and Hindus.Gift custom Ā· Engagement and betrothal
š²š» MaldivesPolygamy in the Maldives
The legal practice allowing men to marry multiple wives under strict financial conditions.Gift custom Ā· Engagement and betrothal
š®š³ Mysore, IndiaMysore Kalyanam
A fraudulent marriage scheme targeting women from Kerala for dowry moneyGift custom Ā· Engagement and betrothal
Photo credits on this page
The small pictures above come from Wikimedia Commons under free licences. Some are cropped to fit.
- Bride buying in India: Jorge Royan, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Dowry: Vassili Vladimirovich Pukiryov, Public domain, source
- Dowry system in India: Unknown author, Public domain, source