Wedding traditions with the ring

The ring is the best-known symbol of marriage in the world today.

The ring is the best-known symbol of marriage in the world today. It is a circle without end, worn every day, and exchanged in many wedding rites. Its history is older than the diamond, and its meaning varies from place to place.

Where it began

Rings were used as seals and tokens in ancient Egypt and Rome, and Romans gave an iron ring as a pledge. Christian weddings adopted the ring in the early centuries, and the western custom of wearing it on the fourth finger of the left hand is sometimes explained by the vena amoris, a vein believed to lead to the heart, a claim that is not anatomically true. In Jewish weddings the groom gives the bride a plain ring that belongs to him, and in Orthodox churches rings are blessed at the betrothal and exchanged three times.

Different habits

In Germany and Poland many wear the ring on the right hand. In India the toe ring, bichiya, is a married woman's ornament. In Ireland the Claddagh ring is worn with its heart facing in or out, and in Iceland and Scandinavia engagement rings may be worn by both. Many couples now choose plain bands, inherited or recycled gold, or a tattoo or other token.

About this page

Written by the EveryShaadi desk with AI assistance. Background on The ring (symbol). Customs differ from place to place and family to family. If this is your tradition and we have it wrong, tell us.

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Photo credits on this page

The small pictures above come from Wikimedia Commons under free licences. Some are cropped to fit.

Iranian wedding: Flickr.com user "avlxyz", CC BY-SA 2.0, source
Russian wedding traditions: GeorgeLouis, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
Odia Hindu wedding: Aditya Mahar, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
Bengali Muslim wedding: NahidSultan, CC BY-SA 4.0, source
Korovai: Olli Niemitalo, CC0, source
Yoruba traditional wedding: Fhadekhemmy, CC BY-SA 4.0, source
Interfaith marriage in Christianity: Andreas Praefcke, CC BY 3.0, source
Marriage in Myanmar: Thant Zin Myint, CC BY-SA 2.0, source
Landshut Wedding: Oktobersonne, CC BY-SA 4.0, source
Kransekake: Kjetil Ree, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
Jewish wedding: Jozef Israëls, Public domain, source
Chaklong wedding: Chiring chandan, CC BY-SA 4.0, source
Traditional Ukrainian wedding: Пимоненко, Николай Корнильевич, Public domain, source
Wedding superstitions: Anonymous Unknown author, Public domain, source
Traditional Vietnamese wedding: Gabrielle M. Vassal, Public domain, source
Hora: Chajeshukarie ( talk ), Public domain, source
Kolach: Лобачев Владимир, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
Arab wedding: 13th century artist, Public domain, source
Turoń: Museum: The Seweryn Udziela Ethnographic Museum in Kraków, CC0, source